After an affair, it might feel impossible to repair and rebuild your marriage. But, if you (and your spouse) are committed to making it work, you can get your relationship back on track. 

It’s important to reiterate what was just said: Both of you have to be willing to commit to repairing your marriage.

Infidelity is one of the hardest problems to resolve in counseling and impossible to resolve without counseling. It takes 6 to 8 months of fairly regular appoints to get over it and to resolve why it happened.